ALOHA Friends and Family!
Aloha, Aloha, Aloha. Aloha carries the bountiful and beautiful blessings of:
- Absolute True Love. Divine Light.
- Recognizing God in Everyone, in All life.
- Truth & Humbleness.
- The Presence of Divine Breath.
- Being Aware in Each Moment.
These qualities of Aloha are our true nature which we can tangibly experience 24/7.
When we live in, as, with and for these blessings of ALOHA we become a blessing for everyone we meet, especially our children and family members.
Did you know there’s nothing more I’d like to see than you, your family and everyone in the world experiencing your ALOHA, Living Your Aloha, in Vibrant, Vital Health every moment?
If we haven’t had the pleasure of meeting before, my name is Timothy, The Magical Kids’ Books Creator.
I’ve now been blessed to write more Children’s stories than anyone alive! 86 to date, with many more coming. My entertaining and educational family stories and courses created with God’s Grace, my wisdom, creativity, radiant love and knowledge of ancient arts and sacred sciences switch on the love, bliss and brilliance genes in all generations.
There are over 25 of my Fairy Tales Of The Heart in the unparalleled Magical Miracle Of You Course for Children & Families. I’ve made a special link for you to pick up a FREE INTRODUCTION to this UNPARALLELED EXPERIENCE RIGHT HERE!
But before you gift yourself that introduction, let’s take a look at the 7 Essential Ingredients In Conscious Parenting, many of which are applicable to all of us, whether we have or even intend to have children.
That’s because we all have a Magical Child living inside us that ALWAYS needs our Loving, Conscious, Sacred Nurturing.
Any unresolved hurts and disappointments this innocent inner Magical Child of ours is harboring clouds our ALOHA, current decisions and relationships.
Being a parent is hands down the most sacred and meaningful service, career, role, adventure or as the Beatles might say, “Magical Mystery Tour” EVER!
70+ years of life experiences as a Father, Sacred Partner, Son, Brother, Developer of Children and Family Educational Programs, and a Master of multiple Ancient Arts & Sacred Sciences, has imprinted the Sacredness of Parenting and the Magic of Children on every pore of my being.
These life experiences included my daughter disappearing within the caverns of a coma for months after colliding with a car on her bicycle, during which time I discovered different perspectives on parenting and life previously unimaginable. She recovered physically but her life and mine were forever changed.
As a Conscious, Sacred Parent we endeavor to:
- Observe, control and resolve triggered angers or frustrations whether arising from our inner Magical Child or elsewhere so they don’t harm us or our loved ones—physically, emotionally, mentally or spiritually.
We endeavor to:
- Live and interact from a place of peace and calmness, joy and bliss.
- Approach life rationally with focus, understanding and unconditional love.
- Be REAL with each other, not living behind masks of fear and routine.
- Feel our DEEP SOUL CONNECTION with one another.
- Live in life’s DIVINE FLOW just like the tides, planets and rivers.
- Understand that our children’s learning only occurs in a field of Love and Wisdom at the time each flower (or developmental stage of growth) is ready to bloom.
So, how do we implement those endeavors in our daily lives?
Someone who didn’t have any children yet, once asked me, “what are some things I can do to prepare for being a conscious parent?”
I loved that question as it’s relevant to future and current parents. It’s relevant to recognizing and honoring the needs of our inner child.
Parenting is the most sacred honor we can be blessed with, providing a loving, safe and nurturing home and cocoon for another human being to develop into their full potential.
A Sacred Honor and Magical Mystery Tour most of us are not prepared for and for which societies around the world need to implement strategies to help people, to insure people, enter this sacred contract consciously and well-trained.
The First Essential Ingredient in preparation for being a conscious parent is to consciously connect with the child awaiting to bless your life. In some cultures, this initial conception process begins 9 months to a year before beginning the physical conception process. Learning to connect soul-to-soul is a valuable practice, an invaluable experience, that will bless you in all your relationships.
In this preconception process, get clear on why you want to have children and fully realize the huge responsibility involved.
This Magic Key of Clarity also pertains to any new venture we are about to embark on. If a ship sets sail without charting a course, the chances of it reaching its destination are diminished.
Having and consciously raising children rearranges every aspect of our lives. Most people are not ready for this. It requires a complete surrender to the unknown, no matter how well prepared we are, especially if it’s our first child.
Without clarity as to why we want to have children, we can even hinder the process, which is the case for so many parents today trying to conceive.
I’ve worked with parents who were unable to conceive simply because of beliefs they were holding around the child they wanted. One couple who had tried a variety of methods to conceive for over six years did so within two weeks after I helped them see and release the limited belief they were holding around a child.
The Second Essential Ingredient, an offshoot of the First, is being very honest with how much inner work we’ve done on ourselves to clear subconscious patterns or traumas from our childhood so they don’t ruin the precious relationship with and get passed on to our children. We learn to become aware of our triggers and know how to respond to them in loving ways so they don’t flare into flames directed at our children, self and other loved ones.
The Third Essential Ingredient, A MAGICAL INGREDIENT to successful parenting, is learning about the developmental stages of children. Knowing what they are capable of learning at different ages and what’s the best way to nurture their learning at each stage!
For instance, trying to get a child to understand something logically and rationally before their brain is capable of processing it is FRUITLESS and FRUSTRATING.
It’s like trying to pour crude oil in your car’s gas tank and expecting it to run.
Every child’s developmental stage starts in the womb, continues into the birthing stage, then moves into the first 18 months, totally dependent on mom and our loved ones.
Then we enter another phase from 18 months to 3 or 4 years of age. Our next major stage proceeds from there till we’re 11 or 12. Then it’s on to the teen years.
Each of those stages are major brush strokes in the masterpiece of art we are. There are learnings, skills, developmental gold stars so to speak we need to master in each of those stages to fully Live the artistic masterpiece we were designed to be.
We can look at those like pieces of a puzzle or the foundation pieces of a building.
Ever do a complex picture puzzle only to find pieces missing? Or put together a piece of furniture from Ikea that’s missing pieces?
Can you imagine how stable a skyscraper would be if integral components were never put in place at the various stages of construction?
But we’re not talking about picture puzzles, furniture and skyscrapers.
We’re talking about children, humans, people, you and me, that are an interwoven masterpiece of spirit, heart and soul, mind, emotions and body. People that likely didn’t have all the puzzle pieces put in place before moving from one stage to the next.
It’s a wonder the functioning world’s dysfunctional level isn’t higher than it is . . . and we’re seeing it’s pretty off the charts.
Have you looked at those stages of your childhood to see if there’s any puzzle pieces your inner child is missing and wants so desperately to hold in its hands and place in the magical, miraculous puzzle of your life to live more harmoniously and successfully in all ways?
The Fourth Essential Ingredient is to explore how other cultures raise children. There are generations and generations of practical wisdom and knowledge from around the world available at our fingertips to search and learn about.
We can also learn about the possible challenges and gifts a child might carry based on astrology. Overlaying their charts with yours can provide very useful information as to relationship strengths and challenges. Where to support and where to learn from one another.
The Fifth Essential Ingredient is to start creating the most loving, nurturing and healthy environment possible inside yourself and outside.
Here we’re talking about food, water, thoughts, emotions, music, exercise and creating a beautiful, safe home. Each of these could be a blog in and of itself and if you scroll through the blog menu at timothystuetz.com you’ll find commentary on all these topics, with many more blogs on the way.
The Sixth Essential Ingredient, expanding on an aspect of the First Essential Ingredient, is learning to embrace unexpected challenges day after day with ease and love.
Are you willing to dive into the ongoing transformations, unexpected joys and sorrows, daily surprises and things you can’t even imagine about to bless your life with joy, love and commitment?
Can you keep an inner smile amidst all outer chaos?
One of the meditations highlighted in those blogs is an Inner Smile Meditation. It, along with several other powerful, proven and easy meditations are available free RIGHT HERE!
Have you ever heard of the proverbial saying, “don’t look a gift horse in the mouth”?
These are not your run of the mill freebies. They are powerful techniques I’ve used for over 40 years to help myself and thousands of people leap over some of life’s most difficult challenges with grace and ease.
To experience the wonders of vital health; the freedom of financial wealth; the bliss of a quiet, focused mind; the joys of loving relationships; their soul powers and seeing their dreams come true.
The Seventh Essential Ingredient is to know from the moment you start the process of contemplating being a parent, especially from the moment of physical conception, your every thought, action, word, emotional state, tone of voice . . . all the vibrations in and around you are having an influence on them and will shape their life forever.
The more time a parent devotes to consciously parenting, to consciously being, the less time their children will have to spend undoing trauma. And I’m not talking about physical or even emotional trauma.
The subconscious records everything.
Your inner world HAS A HUGE INFLUENCE ON how your child will experience their outer world.
If your inner world is as calm as the eye of a hurricane, your child will be rooted in the safety of you and all the chaos spinning around outside that EYE will be manageable.
If you are spinning around outside the Eye, your child will be swirled into inner as well as outer chaos.
Children watch, listen, feel, hear, intuit. They ARE sponges. They know and soak up everything you are thinking and feeling.
You are their SAFETY NET!
They watch your expressions . . . your body language!
In every moment they are recording, learning, inferring conclusions about life. Their little wheels are turning in ways we have forgotten and can no longer comprehend.
When your child notices you are at peace, you no longer overreact and are responsive to whatever they do, their respect, trust and admiration for you allows them to listen, learn and become the MAGICAL, BRILLIANT BEING they ARE.
Thank you for being with me today. I know that something you’ve heard or read here today will be useful for you immediately or in the future.
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May all your dreams come true living in, as, with and for ALOHA, being a blessing for yourself and everyone you meet, especially your children and family members.
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With all my blessings for peace, love, vibrant health and bliss wrapped in an infinite rainbow of miraculous magical miracles for you, your children, and your family, Aloha and Mahalo for tuning in, for being here NOW.